Our specialist divorce solicitors in London, Oxford and Southampton, can help you with divorce advice including matters relating to children. Divorce can be straightforward if both parties agree that the marriage is over.  Difficulties arise in resolving how and when to separate, where to live, and the arrangements for children and finances.

We offer a constructive approach to divorce advice to help progress matters as quickly as possible.  We will be happy to discuss anything that is unclear or answer any further questions you may have.

who can start divorce proceedings?

Anyone who has been married for over a year, providing one of the couple has their permanent home or has been resident for at least a year prior to when the divorce petition is started, in England or Wales.  It doesn't matter where you were married.

how can a divorce be started?

The only grounds for divorce are that your marriage has 'irretrievably broken down' and one of five 'facts' must be proved:

  • adultery
  • unreasonable behaviour
  • desertion for at least two years
  • separation for at least two years with consent
  • separation for over five years (consent not required).

if one of the five facts applies, what happens next?

It is often sensible to try to obtain your partner's consent to the divorce and try to reach agreement over the contents of the petition.  Only a brief outline of circumstances needs to be given at this stage.

what about the children?

A form is also sent to the court with the divorce petition which will outline the arrangements for your children. The law encourages couples to try to agree those arrangements.  Divorce proceedings still continue if no agreement is reached.

how long does the divorce process take?

The divorce takes approximately four to six months, although the Decree Absolute is often not obtained until the finances are resolved.  This may be much later.

Click on the link for the procedure to issue divorce proceedings.

Click on the link for the procedure for obtaining financial provisions during divorce proceedings.

For further information or to talk to someone about a specific matter, please call a Family law team member in the office nearest you:

Christine Plews in our Oxford office on 01865 254213 or christine.plews@bllaw.co.uk.

Simon Burge in our Southampton office on 023 8085 7088 or simon.burge@bllaw.co.uk.

Fiona Wilson in our London office on 020 7814 6909 or fiona.wilson@bllaw.co.uk.

Jane Longworth in our Portsmouth office on 023 9222 1122 or jane.longworth@bllaw.co.uk

Alternatively, please email our general helpdesk on familylawinfo@bllaw.co.uk